This wasn’t helped by the fact that my parents (Two amazing people whom I love to pieces) were very critical of my meltdowns because they couldn’t distinguish them from normal temper tantrums. The “raw” form of this post helps to convey that, I think. Did I misread the card, and the correct ruling would be that my opponent cannot activate cards in the fusion monster's Summon Response Window? There’s that tipping point that’s so clearly identifiable and I know that past that point, I can’t stop it. .
I only developed the headbanging urge as an adult too.
However, I don’t think self harm behaviour is totally avoidable, because the sense of relief is necessary in some situations (an act of self-preservation).
AFter the meltdown I am exhausted and can sleep and sleep, but do feel better. I get a lot of physical inertia, but rarely experience total motor shutdown. Self-harm is an extremely taboo-covered, but it seems, very relevant topic and I would love to read an article about it in your usual systematic, clear style:-) This guy Springtiger has also written about self-harm, just his personal experiences & reflections (navigating his blog is a bit hard, there is no search function, tags or categories, so maybe the easiest way to find it would be to ask him for a link). The full details about the book, including submission guidelines are at Typed Words, Loud Voices. Here’s on on self-medicating to cope that might be helpful: http://theinvisiblestrings.com/experiment-uncontrolled-self-medicating-autism-spectrum/ That’s a terrific blog in general, addressing things like depression and struggle to come to terms with a diagnosis as well as some other tough topics that not many people write about. Re-reading this makes me feel so much better, and the comments as well, knowing that I’m not the only one who has developed an urge to headbang as an adult, and knowing that it’s not unusual for the way I have meltdowns to have changed over time.
I said “Well … I wrote you a letter if you want it” and he suddenly said “Thats… a good idea. In some way, the more he tries the worse I feel because it’s as if I’m letting him down with my inability to respond to his effort to help me. scare. I miss them dearly. I’m quite good at predicting my meltdowns and isolating myself to explode in secret, but every now and then I accidentally explode in front of others (today being the meltdown but last night being the extremely tense build-up where I lashed out), and find myself awkwardly having to try and explain myself (it doesn’t help that I don’t have an official diagnosis). Humiliating. I don’t like it, it hurts, and it makes me more angry than when I started. I’m glad you like the graph. And for some reason I’m the only person on earth who can’t grown squash? (And I wasn’t going to admit to skin picking until someone else did, so I guess we all have things we’d rather conceal.). Thankfully, I was able to quickly understand the need to sit silently by in a supportive manner, provide cold water and tissues as it began to subside, and quietly check in about returning to the group, and then letting it go without further discussion. First, if he sees the symptoms that I’m about to blow, to tell me. My sympathy to everyone who experiences meltdowns that are a lot worse than mine. and he said “okay … okay, I’ll call you.
What used to work isn’t working anymore and that can be really hard on both partners. An alternative to self-harm: Writing on yourself with a pen (on body parts covered in clothing, like legs in winter, torso, arms if you wear long sleeves – write your feelings, etc.) Thanks for being so candid about the experience of meltdowns. As ive gotten older the increasing demands of independent life have taxed my ability to face it with equanimity. Last year I had a traumatic experience at work which caused me to have anxiety.
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